What story do you want told about you when you are gone? Do you hear people talking about their house, jobs or cars or do they remember the memories you gave them. I am not naive to the point that I don’t know all these things cost money, but do people remember the cost or the time they had and the friendships and the heart and soul you gave to them? Same goes for you kids and family, they will remember the things you did and the great times they had more than anything else. Keep that in mind when you are designing your lifestyle, think of how you want to be remembered. It has been said to write your obituary every couple years as you change and evolve, what do you want yours to say?